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entirelyoustitfromourlives.Howeverskillfulweareindeceivingourselves,wecannotdealwiththeverysource
ofpain.Aslongasweareonastepbehindourfuture,thereisNOplacewecanhidefromit.
¡°FUTURE=UNCERTAINTY=ANXIETY¡±
*Embraceit.Youcannotescapefromthis.
Iknow.Thissoundsdiscouraging.Theunderlyingidea,infact,ismoreofhope.
Mypointis,weshouldfocusmoreonwhatdeservesourstruggle.Wecannotdoawaywithever-hauntinganxiety.
Still,wecanretrieveourupperhandoveroursufferingbyfullyembracingourlimitations.Takeamomentandask
yourself. Is there any point in shedding our tears on things beyond our hands? By isolating ourselves from those
distractions,wemaynowconcentrateonwhatisonourhands?thepresent.
The only way we can make our tomorrow better is to keep seeking what might be done for today. The most
self-destructive part of the anxiety is it blinds us about our immediate priority. Nothing changes for sure, by just
weepingoverhowmiserableourpainis.
JustbecauseIobnoxiouslylecturedaboutanxietysofar,thatdoesnotmeanIdonotsufferfromit.Infact,Iam
thelastpersonyouwouldliketobe.
Istumbleeveryday,coveringmyselfwithbadlyswollenscarsalloverme.Ithusliveinfully-chargedanxiety,and
Iamquitesurethiswillnotgetanybetterthroughoutmylife.
Idogethurtallthetime;however,Idonotfearitanymore.
I was once that overly anxious kid whose worries eventually have went way beyond one¡¯s control. Any sort of
professionalhelpbarelyworkedonme.Anditonlymademegetweaker,relyingonsomethingelse.Then,another
brand-newfearcaughtme:thislife,stuffedwithmedications,wouldlastforever.Towinthisgame,Ineededamuch
strongerremedy.
SoImadethehardestdecisionofembracingtheholytruth:
LIFESUCKS.
The only difference compared to the old-fragile-me starts from not controlling what I cannot control. Instead,
I started to embrace my anxiety and see it as my own opportunity to grow stronger. Once I see myself fighting
againstevenharsherchallenges,nowIwelcomeinjury.
Togetbacktothepoint,whatmypastangryyearstaughtmeis:Lettheanxietypreyonyou.
Youmaydrawyourfutureinthebestwayofwhichyoucouldonlyimagineinyourdreams.Andyoumaysuffer
fromthebyproductsstemmingfromthefearoflosingit.
However,hereinliesthemagic.
Whileyouscreechinpain,noneofyoureffortscanbesparedtofightagainstthatmiserabletoday.Thebelief?
someday,thesechallengesshallbeconquered?givesyouthestrengthtotakeonelaststepforward,evenwhenyou
arebeaten,broken,andwretched.
Again,thereisnohideoutfromanxiety,anditwillneverhappen.Nomatterhowpainfulitis,justembraceyour
inner turmoil until you reach the dream moment. Thereby you will keep pushing yourself into a new and higher
level.Whenthejobisdone,finallyatyourdestination,thenyoumayletanxietyfree.
Iwillnotsaythisalwaysguaranteesamassivesuccess.Fortheworstscenarioislikelytobeatanytime.Butifyou
oughttosufferanyway,isitnotmoreworthwhiletohavetoday¡¯sstruggleforabettertomorrow?Onceyouseewhat
issogoodaboutstayinganxious,trustme.Yourgoldendayisnotfarawayfromthere.
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entirelyoustitfromourlives.Howeverskillfulweareindeceivingourselves,wecannotdealwiththeverysource
ofpain.Aslongasweareonastepbehindourfuture,thereisNOplacewecanhidefromit.
¡°FUTURE=UNCERTAINTY=ANXIETY¡±
*Embraceit.Youcannotescapefromthis.
Iknow.Thissoundsdiscouraging.Theunderlyingidea,infact,ismoreofhope.
Mypointis,weshouldfocusmoreonwhatdeservesourstruggle.Wecannotdoawaywithever-hauntinganxiety.
Still,wecanretrieveourupperhandoveroursufferingbyfullyembracingourlimitations.Takeamomentandask
yourself. Is there any point in shedding our tears on things beyond our hands? By isolating ourselves from those
distractions,wemaynowconcentrateonwhatisonourhands?thepresent.
The only way we can make our tomorrow better is to keep seeking what might be done for today. The most
self-destructive part of the anxiety is it blinds us about our immediate priority. Nothing changes for sure, by just
weepingoverhowmiserableourpainis.
JustbecauseIobnoxiouslylecturedaboutanxietysofar,thatdoesnotmeanIdonotsufferfromit.Infact,Iam
thelastpersonyouwouldliketobe.
Istumbleeveryday,coveringmyselfwithbadlyswollenscarsalloverme.Ithusliveinfully-chargedanxiety,and
Iamquitesurethiswillnotgetanybetterthroughoutmylife.
Idogethurtallthetime;however,Idonotfearitanymore.
I was once that overly anxious kid whose worries eventually have went way beyond one¡¯s control. Any sort of
professionalhelpbarelyworkedonme.Anditonlymademegetweaker,relyingonsomethingelse.Then,another
brand-newfearcaughtme:thislife,stuffedwithmedications,wouldlastforever.Towinthisgame,Ineededamuch
strongerremedy.
SoImadethehardestdecisionofembracingtheholytruth:
LIFESUCKS.
The only difference compared to the old-fragile-me starts from not controlling what I cannot control. Instead,
I started to embrace my anxiety and see it as my own opportunity to grow stronger. Once I see myself fighting
againstevenharsherchallenges,nowIwelcomeinjury.
Togetbacktothepoint,whatmypastangryyearstaughtmeis:Lettheanxietypreyonyou.
Youmaydrawyourfutureinthebestwayofwhichyoucouldonlyimagineinyourdreams.Andyoumaysuffer
fromthebyproductsstemmingfromthefearoflosingit.
However,hereinliesthemagic.
Whileyouscreechinpain,noneofyoureffortscanbesparedtofightagainstthatmiserabletoday.Thebelief?
someday,thesechallengesshallbeconquered?givesyouthestrengthtotakeonelaststepforward,evenwhenyou
arebeaten,broken,andwretched.
Again,thereisnohideoutfromanxiety,anditwillneverhappen.Nomatterhowpainfulitis,justembraceyour
inner turmoil until you reach the dream moment. Thereby you will keep pushing yourself into a new and higher
level.Whenthejobisdone,finallyatyourdestination,thenyoumayletanxietyfree.
Iwillnotsaythisalwaysguaranteesamassivesuccess.Fortheworstscenarioislikelytobeatanytime.Butifyou
oughttosufferanyway,isitnotmoreworthwhiletohavetoday¡¯sstruggleforabettertomorrow?Onceyouseewhat
issogoodaboutstayinganxious,trustme.Yourgoldendayisnotfarawayfromthere.
ssk01144@hufs.ac.kr
30
www.theargus.org
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